MORE THAN FRIENDS!..

yeah, its normal for two persons to be more than friends. its not difficult to fall for your friend. it is easier. you both are spending so much time together, you both are close, so falling in the infamous L-O-V-E isn't much of a problem, now is it? but yes, there is reluctance, nonacceptance followed by subsequent living-in-denial phase and the same may just kill the chances of you two having something truly awesome. And believe you me, its true!... BEEN THERE, BEEN THROUGH THAT!..

see the thing is that people have become a little too comfortable in being friends and are not willing to change the relationship they share and the part they play in others life as well as what your friend plays in your life. while most people focus how bad is it to date your friends, i like to focus on the sunny-side-up. Emotional intimacy is the basis of both strong friendships and happy relationships. It's easy to understand how becoming romantically involved with a friend is tempting: 

• You've already seen each other at your worst and have learned to accept each others flaws.
• There are no surprises. You already know each others friends, family and dating history. 

 but yes the fear of losing your friendship as you move into something else remains, besides the fear of killing the existing friendship in-case the feelings aren't reciprocated or the relationship ends badly!.. but whatever, you should be ready to take that risk and also face the consequences with a wide smile, because what you may get out of the risk is just like AMAZING!.. i guess for what is up for grabs in this case, the risk is nothing so great that it cannot be borne.

taken for granted!...

technically,taken for granted means assumed,expected or included without any question... 
but who cares about being technical, it means you are being used and ripped of your time and efforts. 
SHE, the one for who i started the blog, takes me for granted and has the audacity to accept it. well no hard feelings, i don't mind being taken for granted. it only means that she thinks i am dependable enough to trust and close enough to her so that she can order me around. but what throws me off-guard is that i cant take her for granted. like what-the-heck if she can take me granted and order me to *call her* when she wants to talk, why cant i call her to talk when i feel like it. she will only talk to me according to her own convenience or sometimes when i am lucky enough and she picks up by mistake.
well, the whole episode ended with HER accepting the deal whereby she will not take me for granted. we will see for how long that works out. 
but bottom line, being TAKEN FOR GRANTED for me isn't being used. its being so much more than that.
           
               "she calls it being taken for granted, i call it being on-call...
                                she calls it being used, i like to call it as being there for her......"

how did those TWO AND A HALF MEN meet your F.R.I.E.N.D.S mother!?

sitting at home and watching the IDIOT BOX all day makes you wonder how much these TV programs mean to you. let me tell you these are just too important and have become an integral part of our lives overtime. i have been watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S since as long as i can remember and though i have seen each episode a million times, and although my lips keep moving silently as i speak all the dialogue with every character, i never get bored watching it. 
now moving on to HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER. well, i have got nothing else to say other than that it is LEGEN,wait fr it,DARY. how these characters become a part of your life, and how suddenly we start relating them with our own, is what that surprises me most. 
TWO AND A HALF MEN provides sheer comical characters, not so relatable but still not taking away from the so-darn-funny experience. anyways, all i am trying to say is that i love watching these and cant just imagine my life without them
gotta cut short... friends gonna start... ;)

PS- pheobe, robin and berta... ladies i love you!!!!
 

   

SPECIALLY FOR MS.KAVYA BHARGAVA

it wouldn't be too bad if u read my blog...its been hours since ive told you...

n yes, critisize only after you have a proper alternative... BLOODY NON-CREATIVE CRITIC WANNABE!...

FML

Yea...today is a FML day...like so totally perfect...

So he thinks he knows her better...like yes could be...as now she only wants to talk to him and her *other guys* ....while yes shes not all bad...she even messages me... like twice a day?... when i spend my whole day waiting for her reply.... NO HARD FEELINGS... its not her fault...she doesn’t feel for me...i bow down respectfully and accept it...but what about our friendship.... we are(????) best friends...but i guess now i am just the old stuff while he is the new one...ok...whatever...i don’t give a SHIT!

          As in the words of AVB & JENNIFER RENE... :-

                                 I am fine without you now, ive given you my heart....

                                             I am fine without you now, ive given you, given you everything!

     

SOMEWHERE INSIDE OF ME i do regret it...i regret being so truly madly and deeply in love with her, with someone who doesn’t care....like it wouldn’t kill her to give a shit about it... like i thought my case would be different than her other guys... i thought i was special to her... in one way or another... guess i was expecting a little TOO MUCH out of her!..... well, today wasn’t about this alone... this is an everyday thought!

HE, the fucking backstabber pervert pig.... tried to b a little too smart.... showing how much he knows about her...like HAHA my friend...u are a new player...i have been in the court now since decades!... JERK!...

          then there are some messages of her in which she doesn't use any full stops and question marks she just goes on n on writing it becomes difficult to make out where one sentence ends and the other starts u have to read it twice to unders...tand it but at the same moment you realize that theres a god written there with twelve Ws like gawwwwwwwwwwdd :( or sometimes there's a LOL with 15 Ls
Like lollllllllllllllll

like hello dude... so what are u trying to show...u know her better...n this too when he knows i am in love with her.... i so feel n i am sure he has something for her... but i have got no sympathy son.. all of that wasted on myself...like a few more lines in the comment wouldn’t hurt huh... :\

And i don’t know why am i getting so pissed and annoyed... is it actually so that i am the old chapter and he is the shiny new book... n he knows her better... i wonder... n yes... FML...no, literally FUCK MY LIFE!

PS- it seems that  i am making a bull out of ant shit....but it’s just the sensitivity if the situation and the parties concerned that make me go just a little CRAZZY!..